Ish and James Corothers, reflected in the baby grand piano, listen to Frank Zavaglia play every evening before dinner at Windsor Gardens, an assited-living facility. The couple have been married for 58 years and James, a retired Bardstown judge, loves to sing, even though he's losing his memory. Frank, a retired professional musician, lives at Windsor Gardens because his wife, Ruth, has Alzheimers. 10/23/03 Julia cumes